When Your Soulmate Doesn’t Want You To Be Around Them
You know that feeling when you’re with your soulmate and they completely ignore you? Or you two just don’t speak the same language? Or maybe you feel like the person your significant other is spending time with doesn’t want to be around you.
This could be because they’re not aware of who they have in their life, or it could mean that there’s someone else better suited to be with them. It might also mean that there is someone else out there for them too.
Are your partner and yourself constantly on guard against being alone together? Because chances are, if they’re not already taken, your soulmate isn’t ready to share you with the world yet. The following tips can help you understand why your partner isn’t making a move on you, what to do about it, and prevent it from happening again in the future.
Check your assumptions.
When you assume that someone isn’t interested in being with you, it’s usually because you haven’t been clear about what you want. You may not be clear about what you want either, and that’s okay.
Ask yourself these questions before making assumptions: What do I really want? What are my boundaries? What are people like who might want to be with me? What’s the average age for marriage in my country? When you’re clear about what you want and who you want to be with, then it’s easier to communicate and set goals for the relationship.
Don’t assume your partner is single.
Many people assume that their partner is single because they don’t want to be with them. You need to be clear about what you want and your boundaries. It’s one thing to want to be with someone and it’s another thing to give yourself to someone.
It’s not a good idea to put pressure on yourself if you don’t feel like being with your partner. If you don’t feel like being with your partner right now, it’s perfectly fine to say so. You don’t have to pressure yourself if you don’t want to.
Be clear about what you want out of a relationship.
Some people want to be the only one in a relationship, while others want the option of being with others. You need to be clear about what you want out of a relationship. This may be because you don’t know what you want or may be because you don’t know what you don’t want.
You need to communicate your wants and needs to your partner, and set a clear limit if you want to be exclusive. You need to know what you don’t want as well. This can help you avoid getting hurt by someone who doesn’t measure up to your expectations.
Communicate your needs, and listen to yours.
Sometimes people don’t communicate their wants and needs to their partner because they don’t know how. They may be in the dark when it comes to what they want, and how they want it.
You need to open up communication with your partner and let them know what you want and need. You can do this by asking them questions, telling them what you like, and giving them suggestions on what they can do to make you happy. This can help you open up the conversation about what you don’t want, and get them on the same page about what you do want.
Ask for feedback from friends or family
Sometimes people don’t know how to communicate with their loved ones about how they’re feeling. You need to open up the lines of communication with your family and friends, and let them know how you’re doing. Tell them what you like, what you don’t like, and what you’d like them to notice about you.
This can help you get feedback on what you like, and what you don’t like. You can also ask them what they think your partner should know about you. This can help your partner understand how you want to be treated, and give you a leg up in the communication department.
Take care of yourself first.
Our partners are only as strong as we are, so it’s important to take care of yourself too. Go to therapy, get your hair cut, go get a massage, do your favourite hobby, or take a walk in the park.
You need to take care of yourself so that you can be there for your partner when they need you. Doing things for yourself can give you a break from being dominated by your partner, and let you have space to think about what you want and need.
Conclusion
Your soulmate may not be showing you how much they want to be with you by being with you. All you need to do is stop putting pressure on yourself and waiting for your soulmate to show you what they feel.
Your partner may not be ready to be with you, or they may not want to be with you yet. There is no need to worry, as long as you two are open to it. If you two are not yet on speaking terms, or you just don’t understand each other’s language, you can always do things slowly. Be patient, and you two will be together soon.